There is nothing worse in LIFE when you find out your friends are gossiping about you. With so many celebrity gossip sites out there, we're all accustomed to hyper-analyzing every detail of other people's behavior, outfits and lifestyles -- so why wouldn't that leak into our relationships with people we actually know? We all gossip with our friends, but what happens when that's turned back around on you?
Many times, my first instinct is to do the same thing. "That liar! Do you know she..." If I start telling my own tales, the whole situation just snowball out of control and i'll have several fires to put out rather than just one. Therefore, I'm resisting the urge to retaliate.
Rumors? What Rumors?Ignoring the situation is the most silent and deadliest of weapons. Rolling my eyes and going with the flow is a way to show how immature the gossiper actually is. When people are saying something completely untrue, no doubt their main objective is to get a rise out of me. They didn't, I've won and they've failed :)
"imma take the high road and roll my eyes cos imma girl too cool for drama"
pitiful.
** yours truly **
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